I am not single.
I am Solo.

“Stop Telling Single People to get Married”

TEDxBoulder 2024
Chaos & Order

Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own

Breaking the rules in a world built for two.

“Solos see themselves as complete—as a whole person.”

The single person’s guide to a remarkable life

Dispatches from the front lines of sovereign life.

Recent Podcast Episodes

  New to Solo? Start here! This re-release from the early days of the pod covers a concept that comes up again and again—in the...

  New to Solo? Start here! This re-release from the early days of the pod covers a concept that comes up again and again—in the...

  It’s 11/11—Singles’ Day—and we’re celebrating Solo style. First, Bella DePaulo returns to talk about her new book Single at Heart, why solo diners are...

  It’s 11/11—Singles’ Day—and we’re celebrating Solo style. First, Bella DePaulo returns to talk about her new book Single at Heart, why solo diners are...

  Sex educator and psychologist Lisa Dawn Hamilton returns to join Peter McGraw to build on Relationship Design and discuss Intimacy Design—the art of co-creating...

  Sex educator and psychologist Lisa Dawn Hamilton returns to join Peter McGraw to build on Relationship Design and discuss Intimacy Design—the art of co-creating...

As a lifelong bachelor and behavioral economist who walked away from the partnered path, I created Solo—a movement, a manifesto, and a podcast for people who see themselves as whole—single or not.

I host the invitation-only Solo Salon, produce the Solo podcast, and recently published Solo – Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own, a guide for living unpartnered and unapologetically.

Before the Solo movement, I spent years chasing laughter to its source (and trying to create it as a comedian). I founded the Humor Research Lab (HuRL), co-authored the global dive The Humor Code, and wrote Shtick to Business—a field guide to breaking rules and building serious careers from punchlines.

When I’m not teaching behavioral economics and marketing at the University of Colorado Boulder—or advising bold companies and curious humans—you’ll find me hitting the heavy bag, flâneuring through foreign cities, or traveling in my mind as a psychonaut.

I’ll never marry—but I’ve made a lifelong commitment to helping others live boldly, freely, and remarkably.

Onwards!