“Stop Telling Single People to get Married”
TEDxBoulder 2024
Chaos & Order
Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own
Breaking the rules in a world built for two.
“Solos see themselves as complete—as a whole person.”
The single person’s guide to a remarkable life
Recent Podcast Episodes
A high-achieving friend falls in love and suddenly finds himself in rough emotional seas. In this Solo Thoughts episode, Peter McGraw explores why calm,...
A high-achieving friend falls in love and suddenly finds himself in rough emotional seas. In this Solo Thoughts episode, Peter McGraw explores why calm,...
Heavyweight boxer turned writer Ed Latimore joins Peter McGraw to talk about his new book, Hard Lessons from the Hurt Business—a raw meditation on...
Heavyweight boxer turned writer Ed Latimore joins Peter McGraw to talk about his new book, Hard Lessons from the Hurt Business—a raw meditation on...
Alone isn’t lonely. Psychologist Robert Coplan, author of The Joy of Solitude, coined aloneliness—the distress of not getting enough time to yourself. Psychologist Thuy-vy...
Alone isn’t lonely. Psychologist Robert Coplan, author of The Joy of Solitude, coined aloneliness—the distress of not getting enough time to yourself. Psychologist Thuy-vy...
As a lifelong bachelor and behavioral economist who walked away from the partnered path, I created Solo—a movement, a manifesto, and a podcast for people who see themselves as whole—single or not.
I host the invitation-only Solo Salon, produce the Solo podcast, and recently published Solo – Building a Remarkable Life of Your Own, a guide for living unpartnered and unapologetically.
Before the Solo movement, I spent years chasing laughter to its source (and trying to create it as a comedian). I founded the Humor Research Lab (HuRL), co-authored the global dive The Humor Code, and wrote Shtick to Business—a field guide to breaking rules and building serious careers from punchlines.
When I’m not teaching behavioral economics and marketing at the University of Colorado Boulder—or advising bold companies and curious humans—you’ll find me hitting the heavy bag, flâneuring through foreign cities, or traveling in my mind as a psychonaut.
I’ll never marry—but I’ve made a lifelong commitment to helping others live boldly, freely, and remarkably.
Onwards!